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UPDATED: Monday, September 10, 2007

What did your grandparents teach you?

Posted on Saturday, September 08, 2007
 
By Michele Harris
THE ERICKSON TRIBUNE

Legendary comedy writer, Gene Perret once said, “Grandparents are there to help the child get into mischief they haven’t thought of yet.” Perret’s quote is just one of the many sayings, stories and “Grandparent-isms” that make up Laurel Seiler Brunvoll’s book, All my Bad Habits I Learned From Grandpa. She’s also written, All my Good Habits I Learned From Grandma. Together, these two volumes paint a loving portrait of the very special people known as grandparents.

The inspiration for these warm-hearted tributes to grandparents came from Brunvoll’s own family. “My kids would come home from hanging out with their grandfather and inevitably, do something that would prompt me to ask where they learned that and they would say from their grandfather,” says Brunvoll. “It got to the point where my husband would joke that they learned all their bad habits from their grandfather.”

Many different authors contributed stories to these volumes. Some are older peoples’ recollections of their own grandparents – living through the depression, fetching bottles left by the milkman, loading cane poles and minnows into the trunk of a ’53 Chevy Bel Air. Other stories are more contemporary, including a story about a little boy trying to teach his grandmother how to play a video game. One story, written by a 13- year-old girl recounts her grandmother’s penchant for riding roller coasters.

Brunvoll, who was both a contributing writer and the editor of the two books, believes that grandparents play an invaluable role in the lives of their grandchildren. “Grandparents don’t get wrapped up in the busyness of life,” she says. “So the time they spend with their grandchildren is special. They are like a cheerleader . . . to have someone in your corner all the time like that is so important in this day and age.”


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Today’s grandparents are every bit as special as past generations, but modern grandparents do face some unique issues. “What might be different for today’s grandparents is that families are so spread out,” says Brunvoll. “It’s a challenge to stay connected.” Modern technology can help. Even if you’ve been reluctant to learn about the Internet and emails, if it helps you keep in touch with your grandchildren, Brunvoll urges grandparents to give it a try.

Another top priority is keeping the family history alive. “Grandparents should write down their own family stories to share with their grandkids,” says Brunvoll. “Sometimes you don’t think that your stories are big enough or important enough to save, but those small moments are about living.”

Brunvoll knows first hand the significance of passing a story or a message to future generations. As a twenty year old, Brunvoll nursed her own mother through terminal cancer. Before passing away, her mother wrote a letter to her grandchildren. Brunvoll held on to the letter, waiting until her two sons were old enough to appreciate the special message sent to them from a grandmother they never knew. Says Brunvoll, “When I read the letter to them they were very touched. They only wished there was more there.” In the story “No More Tomorrows,” she recounts the circumstances that lead her mother to write the letter. Because of the letter Brunvoll says, “My mom remains a powerful influence on her grandchildren today. Her written words have an impact on them as they grow up without her.”

One universal truth about grandparents is their desire to shower their grandchildren with presents. Says Brunvoll, “We don’t need any more toys. We don’t need any more stuff. Just spend some time together. That’s a memory that will last a lot longer then any Playstation game.”



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