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UPDATED: Friday, February 23, 2007

12 steps to writing your life story

Posted on Thursday, February 15, 2007
 

By Cathy Sabol
THE ERICKSON TRIBUNE

Why not write your life story? Your own relatives as well as students of modern history would welcome a record of your life.

And for your own benefit, researchers at the Universities of Wisconsin and Texas have proven that the act of telling your own history can lower your blood pressure, increase your selfesteem, and improve your immune system.

But how do you get started? Try one or more of these dozen tips:

1. Sit down alone or with a friend and a tape recorder and just start talking conversationally about your life. You can transcribe the tape and edit your words later. If you get tired or draw a blank, stop talking and come back to the project another day, picking up where you left off.

2. Find a local class or a writing group to help you stay the course. This will motivate you to produce work for each meeting rather than showing up empty-handed. Or just meet with a friend or two on a weekly basis to share what you’ve written and give each other encouragement.

3. Give yourself good writing tools—a supply of notebooks (loose-leaf is good so you can move pages around) and pens if you’re writing in longhand, or a user-friendly computer if you’re going electronic. And remember to back up your files so you don’t lose your work if your computer crashes!

4. Set aside a specific time and place to write, and stick to your schedule at least four to five days a week. You could set a page minimum to write for each session. Do whatever works best for you, but be strict with yourself or nothing will get written.

5. Divide and conquer. Take one person or event of your life at a time and describe it thoroughly. For example, write “Dad” at the top of a page then put down anything you remember about him—looks, hobbies, favorite sayings, special times with him, whatever you recall. As you’re writing, if you find yourself going out on a tangent, start another page for your new ideas, then go back to your original topic.


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6. Separate your life into time periods—your very early years, elementary school, high school, college, courtship and marriage, career, children, your current life. Jot down key words about each period to remind you what you want to focus on in your writing. For example, under “high school” you might have the following phrases: first date, cheerleading tryouts, most or least favorite teachers, breaking arm, trip with best friend.

7. Write whatever comes to mind. Don’t worry about grammar, spelling, or punctuation initially. Just get your ideas on paper. When you have exhausted all of your thoughts, and you’re ready to polish them, then you can edit your work, refining sentence structure to make your words more readable.

8. Use active verbs and descriptive adjectives. As writer Natalie Goldberg reminds us, “Verbs are the joint that moves the sentence. Details give a piece a ring of authenticity.” What are the unique details of your history? “Duck and cover” drills, ration coupon books, saddle shoes and bobbie socks, telephone party lines, milk delivery? How did they affect your life? Describe them for readers who would be completely unfamiliar with life in that period of history.

9. Try to write about both happy times and painful ones. Sometimes committing to paper sad events puts them in perspective in the larger scope of your life.

10. Keep in mind that this is your story. Other members of your family remember the same events but from different vantage points and from different roles. That’s okay. You can include their input if you want—or not.

11. Add photos or memorabilia if you wish to illustrate your written history. You are the expert and have the creative control over this project.

12. Create an interesting, descriptive, or humorous title for your life story. One man, who enlisted in the Army Air Force and went through flight training but never saw action in World War II, entitled his autobiography Stateside Hero. A woman who spent much of her life overseas came up with the title View From A Broad.

Whatever approach you take, start writing now. Just remember to relax and enjoy the process!

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