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UPDATED: Friday, January 12, 2007

Married to each other, not the house

Posted on Monday, January 01, 2007
 

By Michael Gibbs
THE ERICKSON TRIBUNE

Jerry Hansen was six years old when the new family moved into the house next door. "My mother told me to go over there with a toy, sit there and wait for the new people. She thought perhaps the new family would have a boy my age and I would have a new friend."

Instead, Hansen got his first glimpse of then five year-old Alice. "When the new people pulled up, the car door opened and out stepped this skinny-legged little girl with glasses. I asked her if she had a brother, and she told me she didn’t. That was the end of one thing and the beginning of another."

Best friends become high school sweethearts

The two quickly became best friends, walking to school together and hanging out afterward. In fact, Hansen began to think of Alice as a little sister, but all of that began to change in his senior year of high school.

Hansen was a top player on the Lake Forest High football team and Alice a cheerleader. "One day during a time out, I was sitting there listening to the coach when the cheerleaders did a cheer in front of us. I looked up and there was Alice," Hansen recalls. "All of the sudden, for some reason, I said to myself ‘she’s not my sister.’ "

The next night, Hansen got up enough nerve to ask her out on a date. He still recalls her exact words. "She said, ‘Oh, you finally asked me.’ I asked her what she meant and she said, ‘I’ve had a crush on you since fourth grade.’ "

First move in 56 years

When the couple married, they moved into the

house where Jerry Hansen grew up, his parents having left to care for a family member. With the exception of his four-year hitch in the Navy, the couple lived there ever since.

"In these days of people moving around so much, or getting divorced, to have lived with each other in the same place for so long with the same friends is special and odd," Alice Hansen says.


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Still, after 56 years in one house, the Hansens admit that the maintenance and upkeep were beginning to feel like a burden. But when she raised the possibility of moving into a retirement community, he wasn’t sure. "I had second thoughts about leaving the old homestead, the surroundings, and the people."

Still, he agreed to visit Sedgebrook in Lake County. And now, Hansen says he’s glad for that visit. "We’re pleased with everything at Sedgebrook. It’s a special place."

Healthier than a house

Since making their move (the first move in their life together), the Hansens find themselves with more free time and fewer chores. "I don’t have to cook," Alice Hansen says. "That is the best part of living here."

Maintenance is no longer a concern either. "When we lived in the house, somebody had to come shovel snow and mow the lawn," she explains. "We had hot-water heat. I often thought about how bad it would be if the electricity went out and the pipes froze. Now, it’s not our problem. Hot or cold outside, we always are comfortable."

The lifestyle in their new community is healthier too, according to Jerry Hansen. "Living at Sedgebrook has helped us physically, not having to go down stairs all the time."

His wife agrees. "The Medical Center also is important. The security of having somebody here right now if we need them is a very good feeling."

A good first move

Mostly, the Hansens simply enjoy spending time with the people they’ve met. "I just don’t know where the time goes," Alice Hansen says. "The activities we do, along with just socializing with all our friends, take up all of our time."

While the Hansens loved their house of 56 years, they believe that Sedgebrook has opened up all sorts of new opportunities and experiences that they might have otherwise missed. "There is so much here, and we are taking advantage," Jerry Hansen says. "Alice has said to me a number of times, ‘I really like it here.’ My answer to her always is, ‘So do I.’ "



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