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UPDATED: Thursday, May 10, 2007

Couple jump-started their social life

Posted on Thursday, May 10, 2007
 

Flora Davis and Mike Tayyabkhan formed clubs to make friends

By Julia Boyle
THE ERICKSON TRIBUNE

Just one month after moving from Princeton to Seabrook in Pompton Plains last May, Flora Davis held her first meeting for Reminiscing on Paper, a writer’s group.

Now, a year later, the group thrives thanks to Davis’s dedication and the help she has received from Community Resources Coordinators Susan Coulson and Angie Crippen.

To Davis and her husband, Mike Tayyabkhan, the opportunity to join and start clubs was a major player in their decision to move to Seabrook. “I couldn’t imagine being here and not doing it. It’s part of the reason for coming here—to be able to do things like [the writer’s group],” Davis says.

Jumping in head first
A professional freelance writer and author of five books, Davis founded a similar writers group in Princeton. Upon moving to Seabrook, she wasted no time in introducing the idea there.

Shortly after settling in, she spoke to Crippen who made arrangements for a table, a sign, and fliers at the yearly groups, clubs, and activities fair. Crippen then found the group a room in which to meet, and Reminiscing on Paper was born.

The writers, who meet every two weeks in a classroom across from the in-house TV studio, write about everything from their genealogy to small anecdotes of past experiences.

“It’s just fascinating,” Davis says. “You learn things about people’s lives that you would probably never stumble onto as the topic of everyday conversation.”

She adds that the group meets not to improve their writing, but to share it. “The meetings provide the motivation for writing and give us a chance to share our lives in a way that you don’t get to normally,” she says. “It has been a good way to meet other people who have something in common.”


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Common ground
Like Davis, Tayyabkhan wanted to connect with others who have similar interests. Yet, while he counts the Computer Club, Great Decisions, Meditation Group, tai chi class, and Resident Advisory Council (RAC) among his clubs and activities, he still felt Seabrook was lacking a group that spoke to his keenest interest: engineering.

“Just as writers have an identification with writers, engineers have an identification with engineers,” says Tayyabkhan. “So I decided to start the Engineers Club, and it’s been very successful.”

Meeting monthly, the club has three threads of interest: the engineering aspects of Seabrook, field trips, and lectures. After only a few months of activity, Tayyabkhan’s idea spread to Seabrook’s sister community, Riderwood in Silver Spring, Md.

Simple start
Tayyabkhan says his club’s success was possible because of the help he received from Coulson. “Community Resources is the primary contact for people when forming a new group,” Coulson says. “We work closely with the new leaders to empower them and encourage them in getting started. A short meeting is all it takes to get the ball rolling and the details in place for starting a new, resident-run group.”

After Tayyabkhan presented his idea, Coulson aided him in finding a room and time to meet, as well as announcing it in Shorelines, the community’s monthly newsletter; on channels 6 20, and 21 of the in-house TV studio; on clubhouse bulletin boards; and in the weekly News from Resident Life publication.

“There is absolutely no question that the management of Seabrook was extremely helpful in making it possible for us to easily start clubs and implement ideas,” Tayyabkhan says.

Apparently it was so helpful that both he and Davis have ambitions to start two new groups. While they don’t want to “count their chickens,” Tayyabkhan says confidently, “Come back in a year, and [our new clubs] will be here!”



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