By Setarreh Massihzadegan
THE ERICKSON TRIBUNE
Whether we are aware of it or not, most of us are dealing with a head full of monkeys. That is, “chattering monkeys,” as they are known in Buddhism, that cloud our minds as we go about our days, unable to control our thousands of thoughts.
But the Tuesday Morning Meditators at Linden Ponds have succeeded in taming those wild thoughts through mindfulness meditation. In weekly sessions, the ten or so regular meditators grapple with the stresses of their lives and emerge refreshed.
“Once you get rid of all the trash in your mind, you can go to wherever you want,” says Wayne Hastings, who began meditating more than a year and a half ago when he moved to Linden Ponds and joined the group.
Hastings is the fi rst to admit that the road to mindfulness isn’t easy. Though he had tried meditation with the help of a CD and books before moving to Linden Ponds, he says, “I didn’t understand what I was looking for.”
Focused energy
Today he has been able to get rid of his unwanted thoughts and go as near or far as he wants—in his mind. During one meditation session he went to a favorite walking space in his old neighborhood of Weymouth, Mass., where he met an old friend he hadn’t seen in years.
Hastings’ journey was made possible after months of practice with the three components of mindfulness meditation: posture, breath, and attention. Most of the group members at Linden Ponds sit in straight-backed chairs with their feet on the floor. They focus on their breathing by practicing “baby breathing,” which means feeling their breath flow from their abdomens.
Though unwanted thoughts inevitably make their way into each person’s mind, meditators keep them at bay by focusing on their breathing or repeating a word, or mantra, silently to themselves.