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Oct 14, 2008
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Big decisions, big rewards |
| | Posted on Friday, January 04, 2008 | | | By Setarreh Massihzadegan THE ERICKSON TRIBUNE
Sometimes the largest life choices are made in one pivotal moment. For Lois Anderson, that moment came on New Year’s Day two years ago.
Anderson, who was living alone in her Newbury, Mass., home, had been putting away holiday decorations when she went to close the trapdoor to her attic. A piece of the door fell and nearly hit her. “Sometimes something happens to you and you realize, wow, this is it … you don’t need to deal with this anymore,” Anderson says. She was able to call a neighbor to come close the heavy door, but she knew that option wouldn’t always be there.
“I said to myself, ‘This isn’t always going to be the case. I should be someplace where I don’t have to worry about things like this,’” she recalls. The next day she called Brooksby where her name was already on the priority list. She moved in a year later.
Preparing for change
For Anderson, the house where she lived for more than 20 years had become a burden. And she’s not alone— many people struggle to maintain their homes as they get older, especially in the winter months. Others find their neighborhoods are changing and their social opportunities are decreasing.
Loretta Tenaglia, who moved to Brooksby the first day it opened, made her decision for a number of reasons. Having recently lost her husband, Tenaglia found herself living in a too-large house in Danvers, Mass., worrying that she would be a burden to her children if she stayed there. | |
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“I had to look ahead and plan for the rest of my life,” she says. “I thought, if I move to Brooksby, I will have the rest of my future pretty much taken care of.” So Tenaglia did her homework. She read all of the materials she had about Brooksby and lived for three months in Florida, a trip that made her realize she could make a new place home. Now she says, “I don’t have as many decisions to make … [like] does the roof need to be replaced? Did I have a flood in my basement? When I compared everything to what I would get here and what I would have staying home, it certainly was to my advantage to be here.”
Timing it just right
Though individuals must make the decision to move based on their needs, the consensus is to do it early, if possible. “I realized that the older you get, the more overwhelming moving can become,” Tenaglia says. She adds that moving earlier allows more time for enjoying the numerous activities at the community.
“Sometimes you wait so long that you can’t enjoy all the amenities that Brooksby has to offer,” Tenaglia says. “We have concerts, entertainment every other Saturday night … [and] we have great trips here.” Tenaglia should know. At Brooksby she started bingo, taught about 100 people to play mah-jongg, coordinated events, and served for six years on the Resident Advisory Council (the group that connects people who live and work at the community).
Moving made easier Brooksby staff strives to make the moving experience as easy as possible, from selling the house to downsizing. People who have chosen Brooksby receive a move-in packet from Move-in Consultant Diane Rose that includes resources like recommended Realtors, people to help with downsizing, and information about what to do and when.
“This is the time to get some help,” Rose advises. “There are professionals who are here to help make this move as easy as possible. This is the time—you’ve worked all your life, and this is the time to enjoy [things] and make your life easier,” she says.
For Lois Anderson, part of easing herself into the move was keeping elements of her previous routine in place— she continues to work as a registered nurse. “I’m very happy,” she says. “I know I made the right decision at the right time in my life.”
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| Ann's Choice - Warminster, PA | | Brooksby Village - Peabody, MA | | Cedar Crest - Pompton Plains, NJ | | Charlestown - Catonsville, MD | | Eagle's Trace - Houston, TX | | Fox Run - Novi, MI | | Greenspring - Springfield, VA | | Henry Ford Village - Dearborn, MI | | Hickory Chase - Hilliard, OH | | Highland Springs - Dallas, TX | | Linden Ponds - Hingham, MA | | Maris Grove - Concord, PA | | Monarch Landing - Naperville, IL | | Oak Crest - Parkville, MD | | Riderwood - Silver Spring, MD | | Seabrook - Tinton Falls, NJ | | Sedgebrook - Lincolnshire, IL | | Tallgrass Creek - Overland Park, KS | | Wind Crest - Denver, CO |
| Windsor Run - Charlotte, NC |
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